Christmas Special

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year all!!!
How was your Christmas day? Was it good?
Wish you all the best.. :)
By the way, today I wanna share my Christmas day with all of you.. 
In the Christmas day, people usually spend it with gather with their whole family.
I actually not supposed to celebrate it.
But my boyfriend does.. and I have the best CHRISTMAS ever!!!
hahhaa.

What were we doing in Christmas? 
He already spend Christmas earlier with his family if i was not mistaken 21-23 december.
And for 25th of December, he asked me to spend Christmas with him.
And i accepted it. We went to Singaraja, his hometown. Started at 7 in the morning, he picked me up at home.
We went there by his motorcycle.
The route is Dps - Bedugul - Singaraja..
We stopped in some places to took pictures.. all pictures are taken by his mobile phone by setting timer itself to take pictures of us.. haha
And we took many great pictures.

This is the place where we first stopped, rest area.
The view behind us was so great.. :)

These are photos when we arrived at the lake.. :)
I remember clearly that the weather at that time was so perfect!
There are 5 photos which was taken by the cameramen we paid, really great pictures (sorry, I can't show you all here)
Haha, and I showed to my mom and my mom said, we were like taking photos for pre-wed.. How awesome is that!! hahaa

This two photos were taken at the garden of a hotel still in bedugul area.. :)
And were edited by him.. :) They're so good, aren't they?
hahahaa.. I agree when my mother said that we're like taking photos for our pre-wed..
And this is the photos of our last stopped..
While drinking coffee, of course we were taking some  photos..

Then...
We continued our trip to singarajaaaa... :)


When we arrived at his home, there'is no one there..
His father and mother were going to church..
We were having our lunch, took some rest and went to his grandfather's house..
The house is not too far from his main home..
His grandfather and grandmother are living together in a house,
His grandparents were so kind to me.. Of course to everyone..
I feel so accepted there and so happy...
Ah.. they have some durian trees, chocolate trees and many other fruits..
That's my first time saw the chocolates trees and eat the fruit!
Hahaha
After spending about 1 hour there, we decided to go back to the house...

When we arrived at the home, his parents already arrived home..
I saw his family are very kind people, no doubt he is also so kind..
His family thought him how to do something by giving the example..
Hm.. i feel so warm.. Beside him also his family..
Sadly, i couldn't talk much in front of his family.. :'(

Before we went back to denpasar, we decided to go to Banjar..
A hot water baths ( Banjar Hot Springs, located at Banjar Village about 45 minutes from Singaraja).. Sooooo refreshing...!!! :D

Then, we went back to Denpasar...
The funny thing happened when in the way, we face the rain and..
We only brought 1 rain coat.. One for upper body and one pants..
You know, after a long debate, we decided to use a half for him and a half for me...
How hilarious is that?!!!

Arrived at home at 11.30 PM. 
 
hahaha.. WHAT A SPECIAL CHRISTMAS!!! :D. 

WHAT A GREAT DAY!!!!

I Don't Know How She Does It

I just watched "I Don't Know How She Does It"
That movie is really really inspired me a lot!!

It's about a working mother, Kate who loves her job really much.
And also loves her family really much too.
She has 2 gorgeous kids, one daughter and one son.
Yup, she is a working mother.

Here is the thing in real life,
If you were married, one side only (in this case a man)
working in a house will hardly enough to cover all of the bills.
Also, if the woman was used to work and already have a carreer,
it would be hard for both of them to let off the job.
Whether from woman nor man side.
So, in most marriage now a days, both side will work.
And the worst case is happening.
This is what the story is tell you, but in this case, woman side.

Because world judgement that woman was born to raise the kids.
Taking care of 'em and also the housework and all of the stuff.
And man will only working to get some funds for the house.
When a working mother having a really great carreer,
people tend to think that she is not a great mother and the marriage will be disturb.

Honestly, it's really sad to watch this movie.
The most sadly part is when i saw that the kids (her kids) miss their mother so much.
And also their mom, miss 'em soo much.
But, because of the work required Kate to do the over work,
she hardly see her child and barely keep her promise.

It's happen when her carreer is in the very top position.
Where she has to do meeting with his very-handsome and nice boss.
Let say, she almost having a crash (fall in love) with her boss.
But the hard part she can't let the job off because it will affect her whole career.
So, she finish her job until the end.
 And this let the job screwed her marriage life for a moment.

Until a moment she had a fight with her husband.
(Luckily, the fight happens when the job is done.)
Then she starts to think over again and decided,
not to let her job screw her marriage life ever again!
The marriage is good, the work s good also..
You can't have the best part in two things.
But you can let your self happy, if you let go one thing and focus on
the one that gives you the most happiness..

How about the boss?
Although the boss almost tell her that he love her,
she quickly refused it and go meet her lovely family.
His boss ended up dating with Kate's best friend.
And Kate's husband..
will be the one and only.. THe one that she love..
It's a happy ending story, though some parts make me re-thinking about the life that i wants..
I means, the after-married life that i want.

Of source i will having babies, kids...
And to be honest, i am a little ambitious with me career also.
But after i watched this movie..
I think that i have to search a job that not require me to come to he office.
At least i have some years (before i finally having kids)
to search for that kind of job.
So, i won't have a case like in the movie..
I don't want my kids are crying because see her mother go to work..
Everyday and always wait their mom come back from work just to read them night story..
I want to be able to see my kids grow, holds their hands..
And be the first that run to them if they fell.
AMIN..

The most important part is i dont want to let my husband down..
I want to be a perfect wife to him..
I won't let my self get a crash with anyone!
One good line i adopted and developed from the movie...


Its for my lovely husband

" You'll always be the most handsome man in my life

I will always love your smile, only yours

And i will always love the scent of your sweat

 Forever.. I LOVE YOU"

I already texted him this lines, by the way. 

So, it's ok to share it to you now.. :)

Ok, It's 3 past 6 in Bali..

I supposed to sleep at this time..

So, thanks for reading it...

Have a nice dream.. ^^