I Don't Know How She Does It

I just watched "I Don't Know How She Does It"
That movie is really really inspired me a lot!!

It's about a working mother, Kate who loves her job really much.
And also loves her family really much too.
She has 2 gorgeous kids, one daughter and one son.
Yup, she is a working mother.

Here is the thing in real life,
If you were married, one side only (in this case a man)
working in a house will hardly enough to cover all of the bills.
Also, if the woman was used to work and already have a carreer,
it would be hard for both of them to let off the job.
Whether from woman nor man side.
So, in most marriage now a days, both side will work.
And the worst case is happening.
This is what the story is tell you, but in this case, woman side.

Because world judgement that woman was born to raise the kids.
Taking care of 'em and also the housework and all of the stuff.
And man will only working to get some funds for the house.
When a working mother having a really great carreer,
people tend to think that she is not a great mother and the marriage will be disturb.

Honestly, it's really sad to watch this movie.
The most sadly part is when i saw that the kids (her kids) miss their mother so much.
And also their mom, miss 'em soo much.
But, because of the work required Kate to do the over work,
she hardly see her child and barely keep her promise.

It's happen when her carreer is in the very top position.
Where she has to do meeting with his very-handsome and nice boss.
Let say, she almost having a crash (fall in love) with her boss.
But the hard part she can't let the job off because it will affect her whole career.
So, she finish her job until the end.
 And this let the job screwed her marriage life for a moment.

Until a moment she had a fight with her husband.
(Luckily, the fight happens when the job is done.)
Then she starts to think over again and decided,
not to let her job screw her marriage life ever again!
The marriage is good, the work s good also..
You can't have the best part in two things.
But you can let your self happy, if you let go one thing and focus on
the one that gives you the most happiness..

How about the boss?
Although the boss almost tell her that he love her,
she quickly refused it and go meet her lovely family.
His boss ended up dating with Kate's best friend.
And Kate's husband..
will be the one and only.. THe one that she love..
It's a happy ending story, though some parts make me re-thinking about the life that i wants..
I means, the after-married life that i want.

Of source i will having babies, kids...
And to be honest, i am a little ambitious with me career also.
But after i watched this movie..
I think that i have to search a job that not require me to come to he office.
At least i have some years (before i finally having kids)
to search for that kind of job.
So, i won't have a case like in the movie..
I don't want my kids are crying because see her mother go to work..
Everyday and always wait their mom come back from work just to read them night story..
I want to be able to see my kids grow, holds their hands..
And be the first that run to them if they fell.
AMIN..

The most important part is i dont want to let my husband down..
I want to be a perfect wife to him..
I won't let my self get a crash with anyone!
One good line i adopted and developed from the movie...


Its for my lovely husband

" You'll always be the most handsome man in my life

I will always love your smile, only yours

And i will always love the scent of your sweat

 Forever.. I LOVE YOU"

I already texted him this lines, by the way. 

So, it's ok to share it to you now.. :)

Ok, It's 3 past 6 in Bali..

I supposed to sleep at this time..

So, thanks for reading it...

Have a nice dream.. ^^

"WORDS"

Meaningful words that i found in "Eclipse".
These words said by edward cullen to bella swan..
A really really meaningful part. Made me crying..

"Aku tidak akan memintamu memilih diantara kami.
Berbahagialah, dan kau bisa memiliki bagian apa saja dariku yang kau inginkan atau tidak sama sekali,
Jika itu memang lebih baik"


Hmmm... What a wonderful words.. :)

127 Hours- What Great Film!!!

This is a very great film Directed by Danny Boyle

Produced by Christian Colson & John Smithson

This film is about a man experience, named Ralston. Who love travelling so much.

He is not like other traveler. He like extreme places.

He made his own track. And he doesn't like "normal" tracks.

He never told anyone where he will go.

He never bring his hand phone with him.

He's just like to be alone with his adventure..

While he was travelling trough the Blue John Canyon. He choose a very hard route.

Suddenly, he felt into the bottom of that canyon, pinning his arm with a very hard rock.

It's trapping him.

He tried to yells and screamed many times but no one heard him.

He tried to broke the rock.. He only have a small knife.

So he do it all day long but no progress.
By all equipment he brought, he only can survive for about 3 days..

After that, he drink his own urine.

After 4 days, he fell like dying. He saw his imagination..

His future child, and his family waiting for him..
It's give his energy back, he cut his arm and run to searching for a help.

For me, this film shows that your family was very precious.

And you have to take care of your life.

Appreciate it as a give..

And 1 thing! Don't ever try to come into a canyon alone..

I will never..!